What is it about a great pair of heels?

I love the way they look. Being 5′2 I need all the help I can get in the height department. In my mind heels are a symbol of womanhood. They are upmost girl. And, am I wrong for the notion that they can be slimming.

Why do they hurt so terribly? I have two pair of heels. Only two because of the pain that they cause my feet.

Here is my question to all heel wearers. Does the pain go away? Do you all of a sudden get use to wearing them and now you find them wearable? If this is the case please let me know. I want to be a seasoned heel wearer but I need to know that there is beauty after the pain.

I have heard that you need to purchase them a size bigger to be comfortable. Is there any truth to this?

So that was my question, now it is your turn.